Empaths are true gifts in our world. They can feel the pain and suffering of others so easily it is as if the discomfort is their own. What a treasure! Yet, if an empath is not aware of their gift and lacks firm boundaries, the kindness and understanding can be used and ultimately harm the empath. For example, empaths have been known to give 2nd, 12th, and 50 chances to a person in their life that causes them harm. If the recipient of the empath’s kindness is a narcissist or otherwise toxic person, they can easily manipulate the empath into giving more, often at the expense of the empath. Thus, it is imperative to have firm boundaries and detached empathy. One can be empathetic and provide another solace but not be attached to the outcome or person’s response thereby living from the inside out. In this instance, an empath is less likely to be taken advantage of by another because they are not tied to the outcome or if the other person returns their kindness. One should be empathetic and kind but yet firm in the protection of the self. In fact, it is a necessity so that the empath can continue to contribute their unique gifts to our communities without excessive trauma.
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